Tia Bandavanis

My name is Tia and I'm very excited to join the Realteen team. I am a fun-loving, caring, and colorful person. I begin and end everyday with a smile. There is only one man in my life and that is my 15 yr. old son John. It's been my job to raise my son from a young age through his teen years. I am a single mom and I feel as though I have done my best to help my son become a responsible young man. I was born in Washington D.C. and grew up in the Maryland and D.C. area. I moved to Jacksonville, North Carolina in 1992. I now consider myself to be a native. I miss family dearly but find ways to visit often. My home and heart is here in Onslow County. This is pretty much due to the fact that I have raised my son here and found it to be a great place to live. I currently teach preschool at a local preschool. I have been teaching for over 20 years. I love children of all ages and could not imagine myself doing any other profession. I enjoy outings with my son to the movies, watching football, visiting local spots such as the Lynwood Park Zoo, going to the beach, and canoeing along our local rivers. I look forward to writing and reading the blogs. I feel this is a great opportunity to explore my parenting role and others. Parenting my teen son has been very rewarding and challenging. However, I have learned that being an effective parent is about learning and growing along with my son!

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Mom to the Rescue

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Allergy Season….Ah, Ah, Ah, Achoo!

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My daughter and I have had it up to here with pollen and all these sinus and allergy problems.

Last Saturday when I woke up, I had sinus pressure from my left temple, rolling through my left eye, then on the left side of my noggin, to end in the back of my skull traveling to the bottom of my head. When I finally got out of the bed, I took some meds and snored for few moments before it was time for Soraya to play softball. I couldn’t miss the game because the team we played came all the way from Rochester, New York to play us. I felt like if …

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A Day at the Circus

Ever since I started seeing the ads for the circus (and haven’t they been all over TV. and the paper for the last couple of weeks?) I’ve been thinking it would be fun to go to the circus as a family.  But I never said anything about going to the circus to the girls, because, after all, they are teens now and would never want to go to the circus with their parents, right?

Wrong.  While we were out running around looking at used cars on Saturday, my husband asked the girls if they’d like to go to the circus.  They answered with a resounding, “Yes!”

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I am so …

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Your Teen and Interracial Dating

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The reason I brought this up is although my daughter isn’t dating, I often hear her talk about certain guys. I have noticed that none of these guys are African American. I personally don’t have a problem with her dating outside of her race because I do, but I am worried about how she will be …

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How the Three Came to Be

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My three teenagers came into the world quite by unusual means, even miraculously and somewhat unexpectedly very close together. At one point, they were all under 2 years old.

After a few years of infertility issues and the related treatments to help conceive, we decided to adopt. Luckily after only ninemonths into the process, we adopted Kassiane as an infant. She was beautiful and life was glorious! Several months later, as our story would have it, I became pregnant. Three months into the pregnancy, we were given the opportunity to adopt again. That turned out to  be Austin, and he was to be born one month after finding …

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How Community Service Can Help Your Teen

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We all know that when we help someone, it just makes us feel out of this world!

All those feel good endorphins are released and it boosts our mental and physical well being. I think probably the hard part when it comes to our kids is helping them find somewhere to go work where it doesn’t feel like a job. For instance, my teenage daughter comes here to the daycare on days she does not have practice. I don’t have to make her come because it’s something that she likes to do. She doesn’t even know that when she comes here to help read books, play with the kids, or even rock …

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The Beginning of Something New

Editor’s note: Please welcome Karen Holder, our newest addition to the RealiTeen blogging family.

Hi everyone! I’m Karen, the newest blogger here on RealiTeen.

I am a stay-at-home mom of two teen girls. My oldest is 17, a high school junior, into art and music. My youngest is almost 15, a high school freshman and into cheerleading and all things social. I think they’re both smart and beautiful and full of promise. (Doesn’t that sound so like a mom?! They’d roll their eyes if they read that!)

My two girls are so different from each other that I sometimes marvel that they were born into the same family. I’ve been married for almost 19 now. Back when I got married, I was a school teacher. …

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Most Teens Aren’t Getting Preventative Health Care

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It can seem like just another thing on a long list of things a teen needs, but making sure that your teen is up to date on their preventative health items is one of the most important things you can do as a parent. To give you an idea how big a problem this is, take a look at this new study. Here’s an excerpt from OHealthy.

Most American teens don’t receive the appropriate amount of preventive health services, even though this type of care can establish good health behaviors and discourage damaging behaviors that can affect teens for the rest of their life, a new study finds.

The University …

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A New Step…

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Editor’s note: Today we welcome Paula Patselas to the RealiTeen blogging family. 

Hi, I’m Paula, one of the two newest bloggers with the RealiTeen.

Although quite new to the whole concept of blogging, I am well seasoned with the teen scene. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 16; Austin, 15; and Lydia, 14. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video.

It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 8th, …

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Interview With the Kids After Vacation – VIDEO

Here’s the kids’ reaction to their vacation in Orlando Florida! Kiki is the youngest girl, Soraya the oldest, and Scoot, well you will see who he is, lol.

 

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