Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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Lost Lab and Owner are Re-united!

In this third and final chapter (blog post), there is a happy ending, and my Basset Hound, Happy, was happy about that. The lost black lab camped out with us for the weekend. Austin was growing fond of the lost pet and hoped that I would not be able to connect with the owner as he has been asking for another dog for 2-3 years. The low to the ground Basset has never been quite what he wants for a dog – he wants a large, rambunctious, roll and tumble dog to expend some of his energies with. Meanwhile, I continued with my research and endeavor to restore this very nice dog to its owner. Multiple attempts to reach city animal control/ “dog pound” were to no avail, especially on the weekend and reaching the voice mail with NUMEROUS automated options got old fast. The rabies tag had the name

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Lost Dog Saga Continues

It turns out that not only am I super mom, but a crafty detective as well. I guess I have some idea now of what I may do in retirement or possibly in the “next life”. So, Friday afternoon kicks off with totally re-arranged plans for the week-end with the abrupt arrival of an unknown quite large frisky male black lab dog. He, of unknown origin and name is to lodge with our family over the week-end and who knows how long. You have to understand, this was also much of a disturbance to our gentle, sedate Basset Hound, Happy, who has been an “only dog” for over 8 years now. She kept looking at me as if to say, “How could you let this happen to our peaceful little setting”? Austin and Lydia and numerous friends coming and going thought it was a grand idea to adopt another pet. Adopt?

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Prescription Drug Use Problem, Part 2

Prescription drug abuse has been now labeled as “epidemic” in Eastern NC, a scary thought and a TERRIBLE problem which has implications far and wide affecting our youth. Drug overdose / misuse related deaths follow only behind traffic fatalities as the 2nd leading cause of death in Eastern NC. This information is a wake up call to citizens young and old who care anything at all about what is happening in our society, and most especially amongst our young people. To bring you a bit more up to speed, the most commonly abused drugs and those most commonly cited as contributing to unintentional poisoning deaths are : Methadone, Oxycodone, Hydrocodone (and other Opioid painkillers), Alprazolam(Xanax) and Fentanyl. These are very useful, effective drugs which serve a need to provide pain relief in patients who truly need such medications, such as, but not limited to, cancer patients. Physicians have a duty to prescribe

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Too Many Days Off?

My son comes home from school smiling from ear to ear.  He is excited because he has a three day weekend.  Then he proceeds to tell me with full excitement in his voice that he has one day of school and then 6 days off!  What? How do you have 6 days off?  He does not have to go to school for the six days straight because he doesn’t have to take his exams. Therefore, he does not have to attend school for six days straight giving him a nice little vacation. I am not so sure if I agree with letting students stay home if they are exempt from exams.  That just seems like too many days home from school.  It’s almost as if it’s wasted time with a lot of mindless activity. How many of you agree or disagree? Don’t get me wrong I don’t think our kids should

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It’s Better to Give…

I think I can truly say I love to give more than to receive.  Don’t get me wrong.  I love to get good “stuff.”  And I’m not too hard to please.  I like getting pretty simple things.  Give me some white cotton socks or some new white kitchen towels and I’m happy.  I was thrilled with the new camera Mark got me last year for Christmas.  It’s not that I don’t appreciate receiving gifts.  But I can honestly say I love giving gifts even more. I always wish I had an unlimited budget (or at least a bigger budget!) when it comes to birthdays and holidays because I could really just keep picking out things to give the people that I love.  But I’ve found that the most appreciated things we give each other are not always the most expensive.  I think the most important part of the giving is

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Illegal Tobacco Sales to U.S. Minors Reach All-Time Low

Study shows positive results regarding illegal tobacco sales.

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