Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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Lost Lab and Owner are Re-united!

In this third and final chapter (blog post), there is a happy ending, and my Basset Hound, Happy, was happy about that. The lost black lab camped out with us for the weekend. Austin was growing fond of the lost pet and hoped that I would not be able to connect with the owner as he has been asking for another dog for 2-3 years. The low to the ground Basset has never been quite what he wants for a dog – he wants a large, rambunctious, roll and tumble dog to expend some of his energies with. Meanwhile, I continued with my research and endeavor to restore this very nice dog to its owner. Multiple attempts to reach city animal control/ “dog pound” were to no avail, especially on the weekend and reaching the voice mail with NUMEROUS automated options got old fast. The rabies tag had the name

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Kayaking in January?

Well yes, as a matter of fact! Given the mild weather that we have been enjoying through the winter (so far), almost all things water related are still possible in eastern NC. It has been awesome to still be out of doors on some days in shorts and flip flops, absorbing the air, wind, sun and as it happens, floating on the New River. My husband Tim spent New Year’s Day (afternoon) kayaking with a friend, who had never kayaked before. What a treat! And, you know what they say – whatever you choose to be doing on New Year’s Day will at least be a sign of what you will be doing for the rest of the year. You can’t make a better choice than paddling and skimming peacefully and reflectively along cool calm waters. Some modifications are surely required to be on the water in January even if

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New Year, Old Friends

Great tidings! Happy New Year! It is 2012 – amazing. It seems just a flash ago that we celebrated the new millennium. We usually don’t plan too much in the way of New Year’s celebrations, preferring to be cozy and safe at home, as in, off the roadways. The year 2000 however, was an exception in that we traveled up to our hometown Greenville to celebrate with  old school mate friends of mine at a party in a big barn at their house out in the countryside. The kids were small then and were snug at the farmhouse with grandparents while we adults stepped out. Twelve years later they are teenagers on the move and with New Year’s plans of their own, oh boy! A pile of teen girls planned an enormous party, apparently well attended by close to 100 of them. It was supervised by a group of brave

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We Made Thimble Cookies

Home made baked goods have been a long time tradition in our family, especially at Christmas as I imagine it also has for many of you. It seems that over the years, we, the women have our favorites narrowed down and generally focus on creating about 3-4 all time best loved recipes. Last year, I shared our beloved Christmas green punch recipe. It is easy, fun and delicious and the kids have grown accustomed to having green punch at Thanksgiving and Christmas – it is a ritual that they all expect and look forward to. Yes, we enjoyed the yummy Christmas green punch once more on Christmas Eve and Christmas day. Another great tasty family regular is our Thimble Cookies. I can remember eating Thimble cookies all the way back when I was maybe 7 or 8 years old. (and that was quite a while ago folks!) My grandmother made

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When Family Dwindles

Life marches on in a very dynamic, twisting and turning, evolving, ebb and flow sort of fashion. Much is unpredictable and yet change is certain. Christmas holidays have a way of forcing reflection of life and things past and present, and even to a degree, the future. Thinking of the past takes center stage I think as the holidays can bring back memories of childhood, the family home, the family farm, old traditions, old friends and just they way we “used to do things” at Christmas. Only a blink of an eye ago, my three teens were all little tots, running around busy as bees, squealing in anticipation of Santa’s arrival. Often we would pack up and head out to the farm to Grandma and Grandaddy’s house and enjoy all the great things Grandma would cook. We would have the long time traditional Christmas green punch, home made cookies and

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