I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video.
It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough.
For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group.
Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way.
I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS.
The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook.
When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment.
I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!
-
Moms with more than one teen in the house probably know alot about being very flexible and possess great transitional capabilities. In other words, they know that the plan of the day or plan for the week can change in a “flash!” …
-
Take a look at some of the milestones reached!
Take the title strictly figuratively – of course, there are no more babies at our house and there haven’t been for quite some time now. The glaring truth is …
-
On the road again!
For 14 to 16years now, we have been treking about Pitt County, Onslow County, all over NC, and up and around the eastern seaboard with three kids in the car.
Since they were babies, we have …
-
Austin, Chris and the girls
Losing a close friend once is hard enough, but to lose him twice is pretty tough. My middle teen, Austin is experiencing just that this week on top of taking exams, getting ready …
-
Call me nervous Nellie, I can take it, because that is what I am! I admit to being a chronic over-the-top “fretter”. In fact, I once was called as a nickname, “Fret”, by my nursing colleagues in earlier days when …
