Tia Bandavanis

My name is Tia and I'm very excited to join the Realteen team. I am a fun-loving, caring, and colorful person. I begin and end everyday with a smile. There is only one man in my life and that is my 15 yr. old son John. It's been my job to raise my son from a young age through his teen years. I am a single mom and I feel as though I have done my best to help my son become a responsible young man. I was born in Washington D.C. and grew up in the Maryland and D.C. area. I moved to Jacksonville, North Carolina in 1992. I now consider myself to be a native. I miss family dearly but find ways to visit often. My home and heart is here in Onslow County. This is pretty much due to the fact that I have raised my son here and found it to be a great place to live. I currently teach preschool at a local preschool. I have been teaching for over 20 years. I love children of all ages and could not imagine myself doing any other profession. I enjoy outings with my son to the movies, watching football, visiting local spots such as the Lynwood Park Zoo, going to the beach, and canoeing along our local rivers. I look forward to writing and reading the blogs. I feel this is a great opportunity to explore my parenting role and others. Parenting my teen son has been very rewarding and challenging. However, I have learned that being an effective parent is about learning and growing along with my son!

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Teen Electronic Media Addiction

Does your teen suffer from electronic media addiction?

Does your teen like to send and receive text messages, listen to music using an  ipod, MP3, etc., or spend time playing a video game or face-booking online?  Well if your teen is like mine then the answer is yes.  My teen is definitely addicted to some form of electronic media.  Is it a bad addiction for our teens?  My answer is no.

However, I do feel there should be some guidelines and usage should be monitored.  I do know many teens who do not own a cell phone, a computer, or other electronic media.  Therefore, it seems as if it is up to the parents to teach their children how electronic media should be used.  The days of writing letters, and speaking to someone face to face are over.  Teens seem more comfortable speaking to each other through face book and texting.

It’s a little scary because some teens say hurtful things to one another and feel completely comfortable doing it without having to be face to face.  That’s why it is the parent’s responsibility to monitor cellphones and computers.  I personally know of many situations where teens have used face book to make personal attacks on other teens.

Parents need to have access to their son or daughters personal face book account.  Parents also need to look at what texts are being sent and received.  As a parent, I have a right to know what is going on in my teen’s life and an obligation to keep him safe.

Do you feel the same as I do as a parent with a teen who suffers from electronic media addiction?

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