Tia Bandavanis

My name is Tia and I'm very excited to join the Realteen team. I am a fun-loving, caring, and colorful person. I begin and end everyday with a smile. There is only one man in my life and that is my 15 yr. old son John. It's been my job to raise my son from a young age through his teen years. I am a single mom and I feel as though I have done my best to help my son become a responsible young man. I was born in Washington D.C. and grew up in the Maryland and D.C. area. I moved to Jacksonville, North Carolina in 1992. I now consider myself to be a native. I miss family dearly but find ways to visit often. My home and heart is here in Onslow County. This is pretty much due to the fact that I have raised my son here and found it to be a great place to live. I currently teach preschool at a local preschool. I have been teaching for over 20 years. I love children of all ages and could not imagine myself doing any other profession. I enjoy outings with my son to the movies, watching football, visiting local spots such as the Lynwood Park Zoo, going to the beach, and canoeing along our local rivers. I look forward to writing and reading the blogs. I feel this is a great opportunity to explore my parenting role and others. Parenting my teen son has been very rewarding and challenging. However, I have learned that being an effective parent is about learning and growing along with my son!

tia-bandavanis

Can’t We Just Get Along?

Can't We Just Get Along?

Being that my son is an only child, I had to turn to some friends for input on how their teen relates to their siblings.   I have a friend with two teen daughters who fight about everything.  My friend claims it doesn’t matter how trivial the issue.

One of the biggest complaint is borrowing things from each other and not asking. They both like to go into each others rooms to take clothing, jewelry, and make-up.  My friend claims this is an every day battle.  Both girls are always invading each others space.

So what does she do to maintain order in the household?  My friend knew it was her responsibility to keep the peace and devise a plan for both teen girls.  Therefore, she came up with some ground rules for the girls to agree on.  Rule #1.  Always ask before taking an item.  Rule #2. Respect your sister’s right to say “No you can’t use or borrow an item.”  Rule #3. Respect your sister’s privacy and her property.

What happened after both girls agreed to abide the rules? Their relationship improved and they didn’t do alot of argueing and fighting.  Teens need to realize sooner or later, they will have to learn to get along with a lot of different people with different personalities.  So I guess you could say it starts at home when there are siblings in the same household.

How many of you have siblings that fight about everything? How many of you have siblings that are very close?

Bookmark and Share
 

Leave a Reply

* Copy this password:

* Type or paste password here:

9,227 Spam Comments Blocked so far by Spam Free Wordpress

Health News

Teen Drinking Most Influenced by Friends of Friends

Study reveals the impressive influence of teen peer pressure.

Read More »

Recent Comments

  • tia on Just Call Me Dr. Phil
    Hi Paula, My son thinks the same of me. He feels I dont know what Im talking about. I...
  • Karen Holder on 1018
    I’m thankful for every minute with my mom and mother in law!
  • Paula Patselas on Just Call Me Dr. Phil
    None of my three ever ask for advice about their personal relationships,...

Sign Up for
Our Newsletter

Get a FREE "Stay Healthy Prevention Kit" and our free "HealthTalk" newsletter when you sign up for our mailing list!


Email: