Tia Bandavanis

My name is Tia and I'm very excited to join the Realteen team. I am a fun-loving, caring, and colorful person. I begin and end everyday with a smile. There is only one man in my life and that is my 15 yr. old son John. It's been my job to raise my son from a young age through his teen years. I am a single mom and I feel as though I have done my best to help my son become a responsible young man. I was born in Washington D.C. and grew up in the Maryland and D.C. area. I moved to Jacksonville, North Carolina in 1992. I now consider myself to be a native. I miss family dearly but find ways to visit often. My home and heart is here in Onslow County. This is pretty much due to the fact that I have raised my son here and found it to be a great place to live. I currently teach preschool at a local preschool. I have been teaching for over 20 years. I love children of all ages and could not imagine myself doing any other profession. I enjoy outings with my son to the movies, watching football, visiting local spots such as the Lynwood Park Zoo, going to the beach, and canoeing along our local rivers. I look forward to writing and reading the blogs. I feel this is a great opportunity to explore my parenting role and others. Parenting my teen son has been very rewarding and challenging. However, I have learned that being an effective parent is about learning and growing along with my son!

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One Lazy Teen

Put your lazy teen to work!

As I mentioned in a previous post, I do feel having eight days off from school is a bit too much for mindless activity.  How many of you have teens that like to sleep in until eleven a.m.?  My teen loves to sleep in and stay up until wee hours in the night or shall say in the morning.

I decided to make my son productive over the next eight days.  He has his normal chores which get done on a weekly basis.  However, he now has a few more things to add on his list of “things to get done.”For one he will clean his room so that the floor and desk are visible.  How many of you walk into your teen’s room and can not see the floor?  My son likes to drop clothes on the floor as if that’s where they belong.

He started to do some moaning and groaning when he was told to do somethings around the house.  I quickly reminded him of the fact that one day he would appreciate doing things around the house.  It will not be long before he will have to join the real world and do real work when he is ready to join the workforce. For now we will find ways to make great use of his time!  While he is not in school making good use of his time, we will find a way to make great use of his time at home. Therefore, we will find ways to be productive, and make very good use of his time!

How much do you expect of your teenager to help out around the house? 

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