Tia Bandavanis

My name is Tia and I'm very excited to join the Realteen team. I am a fun-loving, caring, and colorful person. I begin and end everyday with a smile. There is only one man in my life and that is my 15 yr. old son John. It's been my job to raise my son from a young age through his teen years. I am a single mom and I feel as though I have done my best to help my son become a responsible young man. I was born in Washington D.C. and grew up in the Maryland and D.C. area. I moved to Jacksonville, North Carolina in 1992. I now consider myself to be a native. I miss family dearly but find ways to visit often. My home and heart is here in Onslow County. This is pretty much due to the fact that I have raised my son here and found it to be a great place to live. I currently teach preschool at a local preschool. I have been teaching for over 20 years. I love children of all ages and could not imagine myself doing any other profession. I enjoy outings with my son to the movies, watching football, visiting local spots such as the Lynwood Park Zoo, going to the beach, and canoeing along our local rivers. I look forward to writing and reading the blogs. I feel this is a great opportunity to explore my parenting role and others. Parenting my teen son has been very rewarding and challenging. However, I have learned that being an effective parent is about learning and growing along with my son!

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No Christmas World Tour in 2011

Last year at this time I wrote a blog post about our annual “Christmas World Tour.”  Ever since we moved to North Carolina, about 12 years ago, we have traveled every Christmas.  Boy, have we traveled!  Every single year we have gone to Georgia and Michigan.  They’re not exactly near one another, so that meant we spent a lot of hours on the road or in the air, or both.

When we started the tradition of the “world tour” at Christmas, the girls were tiny.   That first Christmas we had to convince the girls that Santa would know where to find them in Georgia to bring their gifts.  We also had to make sure all those Santa gifts were transported to Georgia…and then back.  We’re talking about big stuff here…Barbie Jeeps and foosball tables, and guitars.  It was quite a trick to make it all happen.

As time has passed, the challenges of making the whole Santa thing happen have become less of an issue.  But all along I’ve waited for the year that one or the other of the girls would object to being out of town for their entire vacation.  This is the year that it was brought up to me that there was never any time to relax at home and see friends over vacation.  And it was also the first year that we had to work around a teen’s work schedule.  Times are changing, indeed.

So, as times change and our kids get older, we get to adjust and make changes and rearrange traditions a bit.  This year we cut the world tour in half.  We went to Georgia a few days before Christmas as usual.  But instead of heading north the day after Christmas, we headed back to North Carolina.  Our Michigan family hit the road the same day, heading to our house too.  We are grateful that they were understanding about the social needs and job requirements of our teens and willing to do some traveling.

Things change and things stay the same.  We will still see almost everyone in the family over Christmas.  We’ll just see some of them down south rather than up north.  As our kids grow up, they’re not the only ones who feel some growing pains.  We all have to adjust.  The really important things, though, will always be the same…love for family and the flexibility to make changes so we can have time together.

How did you handle traveling during the holidays?

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