Tia Bandavanis

My name is Tia and I'm very excited to join the Realteen team. I am a fun-loving, caring, and colorful person. I begin and end everyday with a smile. There is only one man in my life and that is my 15 yr. old son John. It's been my job to raise my son from a young age through his teen years. I am a single mom and I feel as though I have done my best to help my son become a responsible young man. I was born in Washington D.C. and grew up in the Maryland and D.C. area. I moved to Jacksonville, North Carolina in 1992. I now consider myself to be a native. I miss family dearly but find ways to visit often. My home and heart is here in Onslow County. This is pretty much due to the fact that I have raised my son here and found it to be a great place to live. I currently teach preschool at a local preschool. I have been teaching for over 20 years. I love children of all ages and could not imagine myself doing any other profession. I enjoy outings with my son to the movies, watching football, visiting local spots such as the Lynwood Park Zoo, going to the beach, and canoeing along our local rivers. I look forward to writing and reading the blogs. I feel this is a great opportunity to explore my parenting role and others. Parenting my teen son has been very rewarding and challenging. However, I have learned that being an effective parent is about learning and growing along with my son!

tia-bandavanis

A Teen Shot By The Cupid Of Love

A teen shot by Cupid's arrow

What happens when your fifteen year old boy is head over heels for a seventeen year old beautiful young lady? A young lady who seems to be more like a mature woman.

My friend’s son was shot with an arrow by the cupid of love and my friend is in need of some advice regarding her teen son and his new found love. Her first issue was about money. Her son is wanting money to spend when he is out with her.

Her first issue was whether or not to allow her son to ride around town with his new lady. After deliberating, she came to the conclusion that her son could ride as a passenger but must call to check in with her and describe where and who he is with. So when do you allow your teen to ride in a vehicle with another teen driving?  I guess at one point or another you do have to let your teen grow up, but I must admit it’s hard to let go and allow your teen certain freedoms.

The last issue she seemed stressed out about was her son possibly having his heart broken. I told her there is nothing you can do about what feelings take place between her son and his friend. Right now they are just friends and the best thing you can do is just let the relationship take its course.

What advice can you give for a love stricken teen and a stressed out mom?

Bookmark and Share
 

Leave a Reply

* Copy this password:

* Type or paste password here:

9,227 Spam Comments Blocked so far by Spam Free Wordpress

Health News

Teen Drinking Most Influenced by Friends of Friends

Study reveals the impressive influence of teen peer pressure.

Read More »

Recent Comments

  • tia on Just Call Me Dr. Phil
    Hi Paula, My son thinks the same of me. He feels I dont know what Im talking about. I...
  • Karen Holder on 1018
    I’m thankful for every minute with my mom and mother in law!
  • Paula Patselas on Just Call Me Dr. Phil
    None of my three ever ask for advice about their personal relationships,...

Sign Up for
Our Newsletter

Get a FREE "Stay Healthy Prevention Kit" and our free "HealthTalk" newsletter when you sign up for our mailing list!


Email: