Tia Bandavanis

My name is Tia and I'm very excited to join the Realteen team. I am a fun-loving, caring, and colorful person. I begin and end everyday with a smile. There is only one man in my life and that is my 15 yr. old son John. It's been my job to raise my son from a young age through his teen years. I am a single mom and I feel as though I have done my best to help my son become a responsible young man. I was born in Washington D.C. and grew up in the Maryland and D.C. area. I moved to Jacksonville, North Carolina in 1992. I now consider myself to be a native. I miss family dearly but find ways to visit often. My home and heart is here in Onslow County. This is pretty much due to the fact that I have raised my son here and found it to be a great place to live. I currently teach preschool at a local preschool. I have been teaching for over 20 years. I love children of all ages and could not imagine myself doing any other profession. I enjoy outings with my son to the movies, watching football, visiting local spots such as the Lynwood Park Zoo, going to the beach, and canoeing along our local rivers. I look forward to writing and reading the blogs. I feel this is a great opportunity to explore my parenting role and others. Parenting my teen son has been very rewarding and challenging. However, I have learned that being an effective parent is about learning and growing along with my son!

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Report Card Time

Bringing home a great report card calls for celebration!

My son brings home his report card which calls for celebration! Every report card period we celebrate by going out to dinner and my son gets to make the choice. Where does he choose? The one and only Golden Corral. Golden Corral has always been my son’s favorite place to eat. I personally could think of a better place to eat! His grandmother also sent him some money for earning his recent good grades. What does he want to buy? A video game.

Do any families do anything special for your teen when they bring home good grades? Our tradition has always been to celebrate with a night out for dinner and my son also gets money as a reward. Can you say spoiled? Yes, it is very easy to say that when it comes to my son. I will be the first to admit that he is spoiled. However, it is rightfully earned not just given for any old reason.  I am very proud of him for doing so well in school and becoming a very fine young man. He is a good person with a generous heart. My goal as his mother was to do my best in raising my son to be a well rounded young man. I must say I have done my job and it shows. It shows through his character and his academics.

Are there any parents out there who feel a sense of pride for raising fine young teens?  Not only do the teens need to be rewarded, but how about the parents?

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