Schools
Probably most of our readers have one thing in common. Back to school. The same is very true at my house, in a big way. Molly is no longer here, she is in Greenville. Her absence is being greatly felt. She has spent most of the summer at her Nana and Papa’s beach house in Surf City so it’s not as if we haven’t “eased” into this transition. The emotional part is a little harder, for all of us. The reality is that she probably won’t ever see this as her main address again. Even that truth is difficult for me to write.
When you have grown accustomed to “back to school” meaning “back to the family unit” under one roof, change comes hard. We miss her. Her room is clean, the bathroom is picked up and the hamper is manageable. There is a calmness around here that is unsettling. She is my daughter, I think that says it all. Drew, the more outwardly emotional of my two sons (much like me) has mentioned the void her absence creates, several times. John just shakes his head in agreement.
We are confident in Molly’s ability to adapt. If anything, she has a terrific ability to adjust to different situations. No real worries there. I expect her to do well in managing her schedule between school and work. She is in a good situation. We three guys have to adjust right along with her. We can’t wait to see her. Talk to you soon.
How are you handling it?

































There is a wonderful and touching vulnerability to this post, Bill. How are you and the boys doing?
We stay real busy and that helps. Molly certainly leaves a void that is very difficult to fill. We miss her terribly to be quite honest.
Thanks Theckla!
Hi Bill,
I can truly say I know how you feel – as Kass has left our household too. It feels really different here as well – strangely different! I’ve almost called out her name up the stairs several times. The family dynamic has definitely shifted. My only saving grace is that I know she is happy.
Iknow we still have a full plate, even more so in some respects. Time marches on.