Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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Homework…I thought it was just for the kids!

So school has begun and homework has already been assigned. I know lots of parents are grateful that school has begun, but when my kids are in school, momma is in school as well. I really think these teacher assign work they know the kids cannot really complete on their own so that parents will have to help out. Considering I have been on both ends, (teaching and parenting), I totally agree with the teacher. Parents should be accountable for their children’s education as well. I do know that it takes a collective effort on all areas meaning administration, parents, community, and teachers to teach our kids. As stated so many times before, it absolutely takes a village to raise a child.

I had a conversation with a parent the other day and she told me that her grandchild was on punishment for doing bad on a spelling test. As we continued the conversation, we both recognized that the child was not to blame because we were sure this child had homework everyday pertaining to those same spelling words. It was the parent’s duty to make sure they worked with the child to prepare him for the test.

The only thing I wish was that I could get a pass and only have to do homework with one child at a time, lol. So homework is just not for the kids, it is for us as well. I hope all you have a great school year and don’t study to hard my fellow parents. Until next time, Ya’ll be breezy.

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One Comment on “Homework…I thought it was just for the kids!”

  • Paula Patselas September 4th, 2010 11:10 am

    The homework scene is not what is used to be when I was a kid. I never remember my mom helping me with any homework – ever!! My kids are now old enough that I don’t really “help” them with it, unless maybe to call out some things in studying for a test. The main thing for me now with teens in high school is oversight and navigating the maze of requirements and monitoring the progress of the semester since there doesn’t seem to be that much typical homework or daily feedback.

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