Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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Football Fun

Last Friday we spent another fun evening at the high school, sitting in the bleachers watching Katie and her teammates cheer.  And there was a football game going on, too!

Actually the game was pretty good and I paid a bit of attention to it and was really pulling for our boys to win.  After a disappointing first game, the guys came back and put up a good fight on Friday.  And even though they didn’t win, they really did play well (in my expert opinion!).

The girls did a great job, too, on Friday.  They came up with a couple of new stunts that were great to watch and had us holding our breath for a couple moments!  It sure looked like they were having fun out there, too.

It’s a pleasure to spend a night every week sitting in the stands, surrounded by the other parents, and watch the kids put on a show.  It’s fun to watch the improvement from week to week.  And it’s great to see their enthusiasm as they play.  I also enjoy the company of other parents who are there to support their kids.

I think the football stadium provides some lessons for us as parents of teens.  Our kids are out there on the field alone.  Actually there’s even a fence that keeps us separated from them!  But while they’re on the other side of the fence doing their thing, they see us and hear us encouraging them.  Our role is not to do it for them, but to encourage them.  And no matter the outcome of the game they know they’ll find us after the game is over; waiting for them to emerge from the gym annex, just to let them know we are proud of them.

As parents of teens, our role has changed from holding their hands and doing things with them to just being there, their biggest fans, sharing in the victories and letting them know it’s okay to give it a good try even if the score doesn’t end up the way they’d like it to.

Anybody else having a great time enjoying fall sports?

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2 Comments on “Football Fun”

  • Paula Patselas September 4th, 2010 11:00 am

    Hi Karen,
    As you know, I too, am up to my ears with high school fall sports – soccer. On the road again, it is and joyfully so. It is great fun being there watching the boys as well as socializing with the parents. So far, so good, they are on a winning streak!! We will love them, winning or losing!

  • Karen September 4th, 2010 1:06 pm

    I need to make it to a soccer game sometime. I hear they are great fun to watch.

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