Young John
I recently wrote about expectations and how our children perceive themselves through our leadership. This article is about putting my “money where my mouth is”. I fortunately have a pretty easy subject in my son John.
John is a natural leader. I expect great things from him. How to define “great things” is impossible. I think we know it when we see it. When you are a young person it doesn’t always show up, it marinates. Not that I think of him in terms of food but I could.. “eat him up”.
John has always been a joy to be around. He is likable and good looking and normally carries himself as a young gentleman. I have had some good reports on him and his siblings over the years. He ain’t even close to perfect, but I don’t expect that, of course. All the reports haven’t been good and they are constantly being checked, I assure you. In the overall picture though, I like what I see and hear. I expect him to be polite AND behave. There is a big difference.
Today for instance, Drew and I are hanging out at the house, enjoying various forms of doing nothing. John is out in the Atlantic Ocean in a fishing tournament with his Uncle Stan. He is the appointed “Captain” for this tourney, a gift from his Uncle. He is with three grown men and I know they are having a good time in fellowship if nothing else. John is very comfortable in that environment and that is why he is there. He has always been able to say no if something doesn’t seem quite right. So has Drew. Molly and I are still working on that. That is one quality of leadership.
John loves God. John is a good student and I expect him to be a better one. He is a wonderful son, brother, grandson and nephew. He has good friends. He is a good handyman. Not that he can fix just anything but that he tries. He is very curious. The boy has a heart made of cotton and a tough hide to go with it. John and Drew are best friends and always have been. They are true brothers. I am absolutely in love with him. You see, I am very aware of what lies ahead of him and that he can control much of his own destiny. It is not easy nor should it be. As his “great” Uncle Clifton said, “you write your own ticket”. I see him laying the foundation for a splendid life and I cherish the thoughts of being his friend for the rest of my life. I am confident that he is going to keep evolving and improving and learning. I expect him to. Talk to you soon.
Do you think elevating your expectations is a good idea?
































