Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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One Hour at the Beach

Last Day at the Beach

As they say, the hour has come – Kass is about to embark for her journey in art heaven. Ready or not, we are parting domestic paths as she takes the high road to relish in a world of higher learning. For days we have been scurrying around town collecting all the last minute odds and ends that one needs when moving away from home for the first time. Heaps and piles of dorm room necessities are organized in our guest bedroom. Even more piles of clothes are flinging through the washer and dryer at record speed to be sure all coveted items are included in the suitcases. Lists are being checked off and new ones created even at the last moment. I can barely sleep at night just running through all the details in my mind. Then there is the stack of important papers, schedules, reminders, maps and locations to be considered and studied for move-in day. I should have a couple of extra degrees in “something” by now!Never mind the emotional rollercoaster I am on as I ponder just how few hours I am left with to have my daughter at home under my very own roof each day.

This week, the other two teens started school. Of course, Kass had the luxury of being home with me – YEAH! We had a ton of stuff to do; she slept until at least 10:30, and I fretted with the details of making two day arrangements for Austin and Lydia to stay over with friends. Finally sleeping beauty arose and we set forth to accomplish more packing. The weather outside was looking great, not too hot for a change.

A thought occurred to me! Let’s go to the beach! Ouickly! Why not, I thought? We can pack later… So, swiftly we made ready with only bare essentials, grabbed some beverages and set out at nearly 11:30 am. We knew we wouldn’t have long as we had to be back to pick up the siblings by 2:15, so by the time we got there and on the beach, we had about one hour to enjoy – and THAT, we did. We just sat there on the sand, walked a little bit down the beach, splashed in the water, picked over a few shells and just took it in.

I’m glad we went, even for the short while – just the two of us, mom and daughter. Life is today – tomorrow she leaves.

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