Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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Football on Fridays

Two Fridays ago marked the beginning of football season at Onslow County high schools.  So, guess where I was?  If you guessed I was sitting in the bleachers, you’re right.  It was a beautiful night, not too hot and no rain in sight.  It was a great way to start the season.

Now, I will admit that as a cheer mom, I sometimes forget there’s a game going on out there on the field beyond my daughter and her teammates.  And I’m not the biggest follower of the game in general, so I frequently have no idea what’s going on.  I figure that’s Mark’s job.  Every now and then I have to ask him what’s up on the field.

I wouldn’t want you to get the wrong idea, though.  I am paying attention to what’s going on at the stadium.  I’m watching all the kids come and go and noticing who’s hanging out with whom.  And I’m chatting with the other parents around me and getting the low-down on what’s going on around the school and what the upcoming events are.  I frequently find out about some assignment or another in one of the girls’ classes when I’m sitting in the stands at a game.  And it’s not uncommon to find out about some project or another that the parents need to work on to help the team or a class in some way.

But at Friday night’s game, I spent most of my time watching Katie and her team cheer and just enjoying seeing how much fun they were having.  I loved watching her relate to the girls I got to know last year and also seeing the relationships growing with the girls new to the team this year.  They really are a nice, fun group of girls.

For the next couple of months you’ll find me sitting in the bleachers every Friday night, rain or shine.  For me, it’s about so much more than the game going on out there on the field.  It’s about the whole community coming together to share in the traditions of the game.  It’s about celebrating kids working together toward a goal.  It’s about friendship and teamwork.  I can’t think of anyplace I’d rather be!

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