Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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A Last First Day

Well, another first day of school is behind us.  And for us, it was a milestone first day.  This year marked Lexie’s last first day of school before she goes to college.

It’s hard to believe that the little girl I dropped off for her first day of kindergarten is now a high school senior.  I couldn’t help but think of that other first day as I was watching her get ready to head out for this first day.  For sure there are similarities…she’s still blonde, beautiful, and bright.

But this first day she’s not a baby anymore.  She’s a capable young woman.  She didn’t need my help choosing clothes or making a lunch or getting her breakfast.  She’d headed off to the store on her own a while back and chose and bought her own new backpack.  This first day she walked confidently into the school building by herself.

I was volunteering at the school office that first day of school.  I stayed busy enough with my job alphabetizing cards, but in the back of my mind I was still that same mom who waited through the first day of kindergarten to get the full report on the first day of school, hoping things were going well, but realizing this was something she’d have to get through on her own.

I was thrilled when Lexie popped into the office to say “hi,” and let me know she’d had a good day.  And then she let me know she wouldn’t need a ride home from school when I left the office.  She was catching a ride home with a friend.

I have a feeling this year will be full of those moments when I realize she’s so much the same, but so much a young lady rather than my little girl.  Rather than being the center of her world, I will happily settle for knowing I did my best to lay the foundation that allows her to be independent.  And I’ll relish those moments when she takes time to check in with me and let me know things are going well.

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