Paula Patselas

I have now been blogging for Realiteen for almost two years and have thoroughly enjoyed the experience to share the ebb and flow of life with three teens in the house. I am well seasoned with the teen scene, but learn something new and exciting almost every day still. I am blessed to be the very proud mom of three teens: Kassiane, 17; Austin, 16; and Lydia, 15. Yes, you read correctly – stair step teens. They were once 1, 2 and 3, if you can only imagine. That part seems like a blur now – thank goodness for photos and video. It has all happened so quickly and now they are in 10th, 11th and 12th grades. One of the first thoughts that now comes to mind when I tell someone their ages is that they will graduate from high school three years running; and of course, that means beginning college three years running, too. That means three cars, three more insurance policies, oh the horrors. We will cross those bridges soon enough. For now, the household is bustling; even teaming with activity and commotion and that is putting it politely. The “we” I mention includes my husband, Doctor Tim, who is a general surgeon, and practices with Onslow Surgical Clinic. It goes almost without saying, he is a very busy husband/dad. The great news is that he is a very involved, hands-on kind of dad and always has been. He comes home, rolls up his sleeves and pitches in with whatever needs to be done to manage the group. Early on we realized that we would have our hands full and being that there are three of “them” and two of “us”, the odds were against us. It has been a challenge keeping our ship afloat and keeping the kids steered, but always a joy and we would have never had it any other way. I am a real multi-tasking mom, too, with quite a few irons in the fire. I am a registered nurse, since 1982, with a clinical background in trauma and critical care nursing. In recent years, my focus has been in nursing education at Onslow Memorial Hospital; however, during the past two years, I have also been working PRN(filling in as needed), in out-patient clinics at the Naval Hospital and MCAS. The flexibility of PRN works great with managing the busy schedules of the teens, yet allows me to keep connected with my profession. I also volunteer in their schools and for the past three years have been helping to re-invent the Onslow County Medical Society Alliance, a physician spouses’ organization. I’ve also been a long standing soccer mom, an avid gardener and love to cook. When I say, never a dull moment – it truly means, NEVER a dull moment. I look forward to more blogging and sharing about life with the stair step teens. Stay tuned!

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A Close Call…With a Brick Wall…Part 2

(Editors Note: This is the conclusion of a 2-part post.  If you would like to read part 1, click here)

As soon as I realized what was happening I screamed – STOP the car! Austin, in the back seat flipped his lid and cursed! The vehicle did manage to miraculously stop – about 3 inches from the actual wall of the building, having overcome the large concrete barriers and landed just micro – distance from the wall.

I leapt out to survey our situation, wiping sweat in the 98 degree afternoon heat. Austin, still pitching a fit, and his friend jumped out. I yelled for him to “hush” and HELP. People from the Seafood Center came rushing out to have a look. Kass remained in the car – frozen with fear, but had moved rightfully to the passenger side.

The owner of the Seafood Center, his son, two large manly employees, my son and his friend began the heave and ho that it took to manually slide the wedged concrete slab from under the trusty suburban. With that eventually accomplished, a sledgehammer was brought forth to “slam” the bent iron 10 inch posts emerging from the ground, that had been there for the purpose of “grounding” the concrete slabs, and the team of men and boys once more together heaved the concrete slab back up and onto the posts.

Meanwhile, everyone sweated, the customers waiting patiently and curiously inside observing the whole event. The owner was a kind and pleasant man, insisting to me that no harm had been done and that he knew how I felt – he had raised teenagers himself!

What a guy! What a story! I got the shrimp; we had a great dinner that night; the story was immediately shared by Austin with my husband and the Italians and eventually we found a bit of humor about it. In conclusion, there is a really good reason why SOME teens are just not ready for full driving licensure by age 16! Hail to the NC licensure requirements and to the God given patience of parents!

How about it teen parents out there – any other hair standing teen driving stories to share?

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One Comment on “A Close Call…With a Brick Wall…Part 2”

  • Karen August 26th, 2010 8:40 am

    Great story! Made me chuckle. We’ve certainly had more scary moments supervising new drivers than I can count! One of our girls missed the part of driver’s ed where they were told to slow down before they turned a corner. They make life exciting, for sure!

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